LAUGH IT OFF







Taking life too seriously is probably one of the major causes of illness, actually. If you are a songwriter, especially with it being such a high-risk business, having a sense of humor about it all is probably your best bet. A song that makes people smile seems to be a better moneymaker that those that make people unhappy, so this can be a good direction for your lyric writing as well. Here are a few ways you can put a little more sunshine into your songwriting and your songwriting life.

LAUGH AT YOUR CRITICS

Yes, it hurts when you hear someone really slam your music, but sometimes we can be our own worst critics. If you catch yourself badmouthing your playing, calling yourself stupid and getting angry when no matter what you try, a part just sounds bad to you, don’t get mad, and just laugh. The same goes when you get a bad review—laugh. Even if you laugh in disgust, just the exercise of laughing helps heal your body of stress, and may even get some extra oxygen into your brain so it can think of a way to fix your bad bit. Laugh at the fact that the critic probably missed something really obvious. You’ve got to laugh. If you get audience members who heckle you, laugh then, too—they probably forgot their meds, broke up with a significant other, or wish they had a significant other but no one wants them because they are so obnoxious, and are probably wishing they could get the attention you are getting. See it as an indication that you must be doing a good job, because the heckler feels threatened enough to act out at you, and just smile—it’s the worst thing you can do to them.

LAUGH AT YOUR MISFORTUNES

Try to take everyday life with a chuckle. When you get stuck in traffic, sit back and sing along with the radio, no matter how bad you sound if you are alone, and laugh at your goofs. Not only will this help pass the time, but you may come up with some good melody lines, lyrics or arrangement ideas, and be far happier when you arrive than the person that sits there obsessing over the fact that five people have nearly caused him to wreck and that he may now be late for an appointment because he now needs to stop for gas. Rethink delays as reasons to do crosswords or catch up on some reading that you hope will inspire your next batch of songs, and you will not only further your work, but be happy when you get where you are headed which will always help your career. If you get sick, think of it as an excuse to write more and play less, and catch up on that sleep you promised you would last month, and be happy for the vacation, even if it is just an hour more a night and you are struggling through the day. A positive attitude seems to help people heal faster, too, studies have shown, so get out those comedy videos, watch comedy shows or rent a funny movie and laugh to yourself that it’s research for another song. Even money woes can be laughed at, if you sit and notice that you have a place to sleep, songs you can pitch, and a computer to get in touch with people and learn things from—you are ahead of many, so smile at your good fortune.

LAUGH WITH OTHERS

Some of the best bonding experiences are those where you had a good laugh with pals. If you are in a band or have a co-writer, try to find fun, non-musical things you can enjoy together to blow off steam so you can center in on your music when you are writing. Find excuses to vent, especially ones where you can yell or scream together—roller coasters are fun, and often laughingly scary, but so can be a round of disc golf. Go see a good movie, or sit and laugh at a funny show after practice when everyone is winding down—earlier taped shows of “Family Guy” or “The Simpsons” are my family's favorites , but try to let these be after practice fun, not be the reason practice is late, or doesn’t go off at all. This way, you end practice on a high note, even if things didn’t go well, and can go home with a smile and have something positive to write more music about, if nothing else.

So try to take a lighter view of songwriting. Sure, you may feel like a fake forcing yourself to laugh at first, but after a while, just like learning guitar, you will feel more natural doing it the more you practice. With a positive attitude, too, and the ability to look at things from a funny viewpoint, you may find you suddenly can do things you before talked yourself into thinking were impossible. Whining may make for good blues, but a lot of folks don’t like to listen to a whiner. The life of the party is usually a welcome sight, trust me, I know!!!




Deb's Top 5 Songs Of The Day:


Bob Seger, Night Moves
Joe Cocker, The Letter
Steve Vai, The Attitude Song
Tim McGraw, Don't Take The Girl
The Cars, My Best Friends Girl


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